Choose NOW to Be a Leader

I told our kids when they were young that they could decide now whether they would be leaders or followers as adults. 

If they choose to become followers of Jesus, they would be leaders, because people often watch Christians. But if they choose to go down the wide road of life with the majority of people and live their lives as the world does, they would be bad leaders. People may follow and be led astray.

Some might even say “She’s a Christian and watches R-rated movies—it must be okay.  Or, he’s a Christian and moved in with his girlfriend, so it must be okay.”  On the other hand, they may look at your life and say, “He calls himself a Christian? What a hypocrite!”

Then again, if you choose to walk closely to Jesus and obey Him, then you will be good leaders. But you need to know that if you choose to be good and godly leaders, then there will be times when you will be lonely.

Someday you might have to take a stand for what is right, and find yourself standing alone. Your friends may think you’re weird and it won’t be easy.

If this happens, remember this:  Whenever you stand alone, Jesus is standing with you. He is going through the hard time with you. He is suffering with you and you are never really alone.  In the end, you will be very glad you were obedient and trusted God.  God always blesses our obedience.

  •  See, I am setting before you today a blessing and a curse— the blessing if you obey the commands of the Lord your God that I am giving you today; the curse if you disobey the commands of the Lord your God and turn from the way that I command you today by following other gods, which you have not known.                
  • Deuteronomy 11:26-28
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About Kathleen

God delights in working through His people as they submit to Him. Jesus said to go into all the world and preach the good news to everyone (Mark 16:15). No matter where we live on this planet, people are separated from God because of sin. We ALL need a Savior, and there’s only ONE. It brings me great joy to share Christ with the lost and lonely. Over the years I’ve learned a great deal while facilitating Bible studies. I’ve found myself on college and university campuses, the beach, the streets, the hospital, the jail and the juvenile facility for incarcerated teens sharing God’s message of love. I also serve as an online missionary with Global Media Outreach. I’ve seen countless lives transformed when people turn away from sin and turn to Jesus. The changes God makes are real and lasting. These are some of my experiences. NOTE: My stories have been altered, removing any and all identifying factors. This includes names and other particulars in order to protect confidentiality and anonymity.
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2 Responses to Choose NOW to Be a Leader

  1. Frank King says:

    Kathleen, you are so right. It takes no effort to passively follow the crowd. But it will cost you something to stand for Christ. But God always blesses our obedience.

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