The Fifth Commandment – or Who Cares!

We trained our kids NOT to say “I don’t care!” or “Who cares!”  If they uttered either of these phrases they were asking for trouble.

Both comments are disrespectful and dishonoring, especially to parents.  The Fifth Commandment says to “Honor your father and mother.” One way children honor their parents is in caring about how they respond to them.

Another way children honor their parents is by obeying them cheerfully, not begrudgingly. Parents need to train them to do that.  If we allow our children to treat us—or anyone else—disrespectfully, then we are not training them in the way they should go.  We are not being obedient to God.  We are not helping our children.

My parents loved us with deep affection, yet they were also strict disciplinarians. We never crossed them.  Never!  We had great respect for them and we loved them deeply.

In some ways I compare the love I had for my parents with the love I have for God.  The Bible tells us in Psalm 111:10 that “the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom.”  Exodus 20:20 tells us “the fear of God will keep us from sinning.”  It’s true!

There is a healthy fear of God.  Anyone who does not fear God is foolish.  Even though I loved my parents dearly, I feared crossing them. That is a healthy fear. It kept me in line.

Who cares?  You’d better care—or else!

  • Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.    Proverbs 22:6
  • Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.     Exodus 20:12
  • The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.     Psalm 111:10
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About Kathleen

God delights in working through His people as they submit to Him. Jesus said to go into all the world and preach the good news to everyone (Mark 16:15). No matter where we live on this planet, people are separated from God because of sin. We ALL need a Savior, and there’s only ONE. It brings me great joy to share Christ with the lost and lonely. Over the years I’ve learned a great deal while facilitating Bible studies. I’ve found myself on college and university campuses, the beach, the streets, the hospital, the jail and the juvenile facility for incarcerated teens sharing God’s message of love. I also serve as an online missionary with Global Media Outreach. I’ve seen countless lives transformed when people turn away from sin and turn to Jesus. The changes God makes are real and lasting. These are some of my experiences. NOTE: My stories have been altered, removing any and all identifying factors. This includes names and other particulars in order to protect confidentiality and anonymity.
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7 Responses to The Fifth Commandment – or Who Cares!

  1. Roya Reader says:

    Hi Sister. How true is what you wrote. I remember even thinking as a child, if my parents slipped punishing me for ½ day after being disobedient, that they truly did not love me. I rarely EVER crossed my parents. Hence, I have no problem obeying the Lord. Fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. I shall read more of Psalm 111:10. Keep ’em coming!

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